Jim. Your posting was very nice, thank you.I was going to say, sweet, but the PC brigade would probably latch on and use that as a distraction. I had a discussion once with a guy from Sheffield who appeared to have a worry about Southerners taking umbrage over the term Love, or some other local term. He spent some time on the subject so he was obviously having a problem with it, himself, but it doesn’t faze me. There are more important things in life to think about. I am a Southerner, born in Westminster, although I am not sure if that is a boast; but I prefer to think we are laid back over such things.Now are we sitting comfortably?I find this ‘political’ world very strange. Under guise of ‘democracy’ and ‘open debate’ we constantly have demonstrated very closed minds and arguments with absolutely no want to take on a problem solving approach. A problem solving approach might actually mean open discussion, and as this is what is lacking, the subject appears to go around and around in circles.I particularly find the emotive language used by some political personages strange. As an observer, I would say it is used intentionally to inflame and stir and insult and wind up – with the intention not of ‘resolve’ but of seeking to obtain a response in the same manner. For example; should I feel the need to reply to Conal’s postings, in the same manner as he is talking to me, I might start with – “Conal, is it the male menopause which is causing you to ambulance chase?”. I do, after all, like to think well of somebody, and should he be suffering, I would like to be considerate.See what I mean?Phil’s response was as always, detailed and full, and I am sure that his and Paul’s concerns are valid. I am fed up with the sniping at Phil’s background – a background maketh the man, as far as I am concerned, or at least bits of the man. I don’t know Phil, just in case anyone starts up the usual – ‘you must be a follower’ accusations. So if this is a serious issue why not take it on, rather than add it to this (IMHO) stupidly-titled-meant-to-be-an-undermining-dig thread.Paul may have said tongue in cheek – “I am inclined to agree with you Sarah. Regular readers of this forum will know that a bitter court case was fought about a year and a half ago between Mrs Smith and her colleagues and a number of ICG members and this new evidence should not be watered down by being discussed on many threads.”But in essence, I agree with him.I too remember the election and a lot of hoo-ha about The Community Group and its ‘links’ to another group. I remember regarding the ICG with a negative viewpoint, or at least a wariness which would not have been there, had the seed had not been sown.My wariness could have come from adverse publicity. It might equally have been that following the admission of such a link, it was enough to cast a doubt and the handling of this information needed more consideration in order for the ICG to sail through it. IMHO a view might be taken that people are far less trusting of Politicians and information such as this might indicate a back door way of electing people who you would not normally give the time of day to.I do not remember where the seed was sown, just that it had become gossip and discussion amongst people locally. It may even have been from banner headlines which I didn’t bother to follow through and read.Had I been in the district where the ICG were asking for my vote, it would have influenced my vote. The only way around this at that time might have been for the ICG to have spoken to me personally, in order defend their intentions. I know much more about the ICG from this forum. I equally understand more about the local Labour Group and 101 other groups and subjects. I think Conals comments say more about him, than about me. I take it as political speak that he uses the terms grudge, grow up, adult, education, correcting, personal issues, move on, lecturing, and I am sure there are a few others, all equally as ridiculous. If I were to single any of these out, it would be the education one. Life has many experiences, and if I wrote mine into a book for you to read Conal, it would educate you.
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