Forum Topic

To the Brentford Community – Re: Jim Lawes, A Message of Gratitude and Hope

Hello friends, neighbours, and fellow hearts of Brentford (where Jim lives) and Chiswick (where Jim grew up and I was born),This is Lucas Lawes writing to honour someone whose quiet strength and community spirit have carried more weight than most could know—my father, Jim Lawes.As Amanda Jane Goodall and I prepare to marry in June 2026, I would like to ask publicly, and lovingly, for my father’s blessing as Amanda becomes Amanda Jane Lawes. But even more than that - I want to say thank you.The last sixteen years have been difficult, complex, and at times unbearable for Jim's family, but especially for my Dad, Jim. Through it all, Dad has shown patience, resilience, and an enduring love that words barely capture.Jim Lawes has long been a pillar in this community - his dedication to Brentford’s history, his commitment to preserving stories and supporting neighbours, and his tireless efforts to celebrate local heritage have meant the world to many. To me, he is not just a father, but a living archive of heart, heritage, and humanity.So please, if you’re reading this - take a moment to reflect, to applaud, and to honour a man who deserves it. Jim Lawes.To my dad: thank you. For everything. I love you.A Message of Strength to Dad (recorded 6th April 2024)https://youtu.be/xVXb11a1m70Imagine by John Lennon by local Artist Phil Marshall - The Albion Pub on Bridge Road in Hampton Court/East Moleseyhttps://youtu.be/uKVDMxg2u0AWith hope, healing, and harmony,Lucas Edward Lawes

Lucas Lawes ● 9d4 Comments

You've missed the point entirely - clearly readers could not have failed to see them just that these contributions should be kept one on one - there is a PM function no?

Richard Schofield ● 4d

That's a bit harsh.  Just because no-one has replied doesn't mean that no-one has seen them.  There are plenty of families who have more complicated lives than most people know about and it is very easy to have misunderstandings and then lose touch especially nowadays when social media and tech has become ever changing, complicated and expensive to keep up with.

Philippa Bond ● 5d

Take a hint eh son, no-one has (previously) acknowledged any of your other messages and we can do without any more of your rambles.

Richard Schofield ● 9d

I have posted on the Epsom and Ewell forum a poll for people to consider my idea of there being a new possibility to become married by Lawes of Relativity.https://www.epsomandewell.co.uk/area/all/general-epsom-and-ewell-discussion-68/poll-a-new-kind-of-wedding--introducing-the-lawes-of-relativity-225300/

Lucas Lawes ● 9d

Dear neighbours of Brentford and Chiswick,Following on from my recent message honouring my father, Jim Lawes, I’m writing with something new—something both personal and quietly historic.I’m proud to announce the launch of a public Flickr group:🔗 Lawes of Relativityhttps://flic.kr/g/3h3xw3It’s a place where friends, family, and members of our community can gather in a digital moment of reflection—honouring values like care, legacy, medicine, and what it means to carry a name like Lawes.Among the early images shared is a visual expression of something I’ve hoped for deeply:My father, Jim, pictured at the wedding of Amanda and I, standing in quiet dignity as we are joined not just by law—but by what we’re calling the Lawes of Relativity:A new way of seeing structure—not as force, but as relationship.Not replacing law, but expanding it through empathy, ethics, and family.This project is not political, nor theoretical. It’s a deeply personal gesture.And it’s open to all who wish to bear witness, contribute, or simply observe.Dad—if you're reading this—I hope you'll take a look. You may already know how much it would mean to me for you to be part of this chapter, in any way you choose.To everyone else in the community: thank you. For the space, the patience, and the quiet hope.With respect, healing, and heartfelt thanks,Lucas Edward Lawes(son of Jim, partner of Amanda, and lifelong student of Brentford’s best)

Lucas Lawes ● 9d