As usual my comments are taken out of context.... I said that your ex made stipulations and you have chosen not to take them into account, good for you. I did not at any point say that you had to do anything... I said you chose to do that, and never made any derogatory comment about it.I AM NOT labelling all people on benefits as the same, I am being slated now for having an opinion which in this day and agae, I thought was my right, but clearly not... You make out that because I am not on benefits that I can afford all the things you list in your post but I can't, I'm not going to go into the self pity of I can't do this, I can't have that, my kids cant do this and that because I as an adult have made these choices, no one has made them for me. The same as your ex wife, if she was going on forums moaning that she has no money etc then I sure as hell would comment to her as well, but she hasn't. You put the post up and then don't appreciate or allow any one elses opinions!! I'm not here to gain self pity from anyone, I am merely commenting on my personal experience as you have.I like to cause contreversy as you have in the past and I am more than happy to take the criticism but dont tar me with a brush you have no right to hold!!I work hard to give my children what I didn't have, and you are slating me for doing that, comical really because I'm doing the same as you but with my own hands...As for the benefits, I havent made this ruling, goverment has, nothing I can do or say will change that, so there is little point in bringing that into the argument... If there was a problem this is something that you should've ironed out in court with an order, not gripe about it now...There are plenty of people out there who are on benefits, and who are working who rely on things like free tickets, reduced priced holidays, just so that they can get to do these things so dont use that as a stick to beat me with because it doesn't work...Just because I work, doesn't mean I have luxuries, not by any means... put I am sure you have a computer/smart phone on which to post all of these comments so you do have one luxury :)
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